When Kevin was realized as a person, the Vietnam War was already going on.  The noise in the sky which was thundered by jet fighters, transport planes and helicopters. The scary noise of artilleries being fired and bombs being exploded in near distance were always interrupted his peace moment of life from day to days until he left for Thailand in 1979. Kevin was so tired of being refugees, leaving one's home or village to the others constantly in the first 15 years of his life.  In 1979, Kevin decided that he no longer wanted to hear any more noise from guns, artilleries and bombs that he left Laos for good.  Kevin's brother, Moua, was in Thailand first and he wrote a letter to Kevin.  He said," My dear brother, you have to leave the jungle of Laos.  You have to come over to Thailand and think about being resettled in a third country. The war in Laos is not going to stop any time soon.  The fighting will keep going for a long time and the killings by the Lao Communists will continue until there is no more freedom fighters fighting against them.  Gen. Vang Pao would not be returned any time soon, either.  I suggested that you come to Thailand due to the fact that I will not come back to Laos for fear of being killed.  The longer you remain in Laos, the dangerous you are. I know you are concerned about our family, but since they are being captured by the Lao Communists and returned to the village they should be fine. You are the one that everyone is concerned about.  So, you should leave Laos soon as you can while Thailand is still accepting Hmong Refugees.

Kevin and his 5 cousins then decided that they should leave Laos for Thailand for their own safety.  On February 27, 1979, Kevin and his 5 cousins (Chongkoua, Saidang, Chueker, Toua, Smidchei) arrived in Thailand safely even though a half of his group were killed while swimming across the Mekong River by Vietnamese and Lao Communist soldiers. Kevin got to the Nong Khay Refugees Camp on March 3rd, 1979.  Kevin and his brother moved to Vinai on July 27, 1979.  They registered with UNHCR and were accepted to resettle in USA on January 15, 1980.  They arrived in Chicago, Illinois on January 23, 1980. Kevin and his brother Moua attended Wheaton Central High School, then North High School in Eau Claire, Wisconsin.  Kevin went back to Illinois and attended Glenbard West High School in Glen Ellyn, Illinois.  They both graduated from High School in 1983.  Kevin Attended College of Du Page then transfered to Northern Illinois University. His brother, Moua, attended UW Barron, Rice Lake, Wisconsin then transfered to UW-Eau Claire. In 1985, the rest of Kevin's family finally came to the United States, joining Kevin in Illinois. In 1987, Kevin was hired by USCC as Case Manager to work with the new refugees.

On May 19, 1992, Kevin then got married to Chao Moua, a divorced girl.  On August 14, 2004, Chao left Kevin back to California. On May 17th, 2005, Kevin then went to Laos to engage with Sheng Goa-Ia Vue, who later betrayed him by refusing to claim her VISA to enter the United States and then fled with her boyfriend, Somchai Kunkaeo to Phou Phaman, Khonkaen, Thailand.

In April, 2009, Sheng Goa-Ia Vue returned to Laos after she was emotionally abused by her Thai boyfriend--and after her Thai boyfriend tried to force Sheng to make a false claim their their son was Kevin's to further scam him for money. A DNA test show Somchai Kunkaeo is the natural father. The case is terminated and Somchai Kunkaeo blamed their failure to obtain Child Support on Sheng, causing conflict and bitterness that ended their three years of relationships.

Now Sheng is married to Thai (Thaiv) Yang from the neighboring village of Liaxat. Thai Yang is known to be a very abusive husband who beated his ex-wife three times a day until she divorced him. Thai's ex-wife new marriage to a new guy is happier than ever.

Prior to Sheng's marriage to Thai Yang, he pretended to be a so nice of guy who did everything to win her heart and her family's approval. When her parents butcher a animal for food or ceremony, Thai would do all the cleaning, butchuring and cooking. It convinced Sheng and her parents that Thai would be the best husband or Son-In-Law. Now after a short time in their marriage and after her baby girl was born, Thai would spend his time fooling aroung with new girls in Phone Savanh, refuses to help Sheng to take care their baby, or help doing farming, according to Mai Vang, Sheng's friend. She now feels deeply repent to what she had done to me and wishes she can turn back the clock, but it is too late.

Whoever date girls oversea; especially, those girls who posted their pics on Tojsiab.com, I want to share some real stories about girls from Laos:
01. I personally was scammed by Sheng Goa-Ia Vue and her cousin, Mai Moua, and Nkaujzoo Ham for several thousand of Dollars. They claimed the money was to start a small business, for their education, job training courses, and living costs. I later found out they didn't even go school nor attend any job training.

02. A Hmong man who pic a girl from Tojsiab.com and had chic chat over the phone with her and sending her several thousands of Dollars over a year prior to his arragement to meet her in Laos, hoping to get married to her. He found out she was some one else wife. He was arrested and charged with adultery with some one's wife when her husband confront him in the hotel room having sex with his wife. He lost additional several thousand Dollars to avoid prison or jail.

03. A Hmong man arrived in Vientiane, Laos to meet his lover whom he pic from Tojsiab.com only to be robbed by her and her husband. As the man arrived at the hotel where his suppose to be a lover agreed to rent for them just to find out she is a married woman. The Hmong American man found a man in the hotel waiting. He ask the Hmong American man if he found a girlfriend in Laos. He said, "Yes, this is my lover." The Laotian Hmong then told him that the woman is his wife then they took off with his wife still carrying all his money, passport, and other belongings. He was robbed one more times after spending several thousands of Dollars for her.

04. A Hmong man chic chat with a girl in Laos whom is saw on Tojsiab.com for over a year. At the end, she made a false claim that she passed her interview with the US Embassy in Laos and was just about to leave for USA. She asked for several thousands of Dollars for her plan tickets and for other process fee, but she disappear after he sent her six thousand Dollars. He found out that she got married to her boyfriend after she received the money.

05. A Hmong man went to Laos recently to look for wife. He found a girl who live in Ding Daeng (Av Liab) who lied to him that she came from the country side. She told him she can go anywhere and do anything he prefered. He took her to hotel and had sex with her. When they returned to Ding Daeng, she just turned him in to her family and claimed she was raped. He was fined $3,000.00.

06. A Hmong man divorced his wife so he can get married to his lovely girl he found in Laos. He sent her several thousands of Dollars. Finally, he went to Laos with a full suitcase of girl's clothings and jewelries. After she received all the gifts which cost a thousand Dollars, she told him to marry her that night or he would lose her. He was not prepared and couldn't get a wedding party for them in a short time of notice, the next day she got married to someone else. He lost several thousands of Dollars and a marriage for nothing, but scamming.

There are several girls who posted their pictures on Tojsiab.com to look for lovers. Most of pics in Tojsiab.com are scammers or someone else wives. The true story is that most girls posted in TOJSIAB.COM are not single girls who are looking for love. They are someone's wife who are looking to scam Hmong USA, Australian and French for money.

When I arrived in Phaxa, Nonhai, a Hmong woman committed suicide by taking pills. As I looked the hospital staffs were trying to save her life, I asked what made her thinking about killing herself and their response was that she posted a lots of local girls pics on Tojsiab.com that she spent most of her time chatting and talking to oversea guys. First, her husband approved it so she can scam oversea Hmong men for money. As money started to arrive and the needs of money is no longer a problem, her husband started to feel jealous of her since she would now spend times on the phone instead of cooking, farming or doing housing chores. Now her attidude toward her husband is changed. She feels in love with those sweet guys she chat with. People in Phaxa told me that one woman died, one got divorced, and several are now having family problems.

Here are a few of the girls:
Tshiab Ham. The picture is Pajzoo Ham.
.But, Pazong is now married and lives in Australia. The Tshiab Ham is just a scammer.
Nkauj Sua Muas. Picture is Naly Thao of Muang Kham. Nkauj Sua Muas is the scammer.Paj Suab Vaj. The picture is Mao Vang who is also married to an Australian Hmong.
Tshiab Vaj. Tshiab Vaj's real name is Paj Ntaub Vaj and she is a scammer. Her father is Paj Xyooj Vaj who lives in Muang Cha. Tshiab Vaj will not hesitate to tell you whom her real identity is, but the problem is that she is just a scammer. Once you arrive in Laos, she changed her phone number and you will not be able to get hold on her. She did it to me and a French Hmong.

There are so many pics of girls I know are on Tojsiab.com whose pictures were stolen and posted without their knowledge.

Those who are married, shall never date or spend money for girls in Laos. It is best to spend your money for your wife or lover in USA who is truly giving you the love you can see and feel. Girls in Laos not only are scammers, but also has diseases that can transmit to you when you sexually contact with them. See my health advice to the left column for further information.

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